On October 20th, the author’s seven-year-old son suffered cardiac arrest during a medical procedure, resulting in catastrophic brain damage. The author expresses devastation, emphasizes that the grief from this kind of tragedy is difficult to understand unless experienced, and acknowledges the rarity of miracles. While hope remained, the author found it most challenging. The author’s son is alive but has severe brain damage and requires 24/7 care. The family has decided to provide comfort and pain relief measures instead of prolonging his life through artificial means. The author is no longer pursuing a career in game development and has taken on a new job in real estate mass appraisal technology. The author’s family has adapted to the situation, and although painful, they continuously express love and care for their son. The author cherishes joy amidst the sadness and appreciates the progress society has made in reducing the frequency of such tragedies. The author concludes with a quote encouraging resilience in the face of despair.
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