The author reflects on their lifelong passion for coding, emphasizing the joy and purpose it brings them. They argue that pursuing what one loves is a gift, but caution against letting it become an obsession or a god. They stress the importance of maintaining multiple sources of meaning and engagement, and not imposing one’s work patterns on others. The author shares personal experiences of navigating expectations and offers a protocol that works for them, focusing on balancing work with relationships and self-care. They advocate for proactive expectation management and clear communication to prevent burnout and maintain a healthy work-life integration.
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