In this web content, the author, Bess Stillman, discusses her experiences as an ER doctor and the wife of someone with squamous cell carcinoma. She shares her struggles with memory and the fear of forgetting important moments with her husband. She talks about the videos they made together to document their life and ensure she has something to remember him by. The author reflects on how people change over time and how difficult it is to predict the future. She shares her hope that her husband, Jake, will understand her better than she understands herself.
https://bessstillman.substack.com/p/remembering-things-that-havent-happened